Teenager love: advice of a psychologist for parents

21 August 2018, 15:41 | The Company
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The feeling of love is natural for every person. The ability to love has been developing since childhood, and in the adolescence the first serious feelings appear. Is this love, or hobbies that change one after another?.

The strength, depth and clarity of feelings depend on how well the personality of the adolescent is formed. If a child grew up in an atmosphere of open and free expression of feelings, while being able to control himself and not go beyond the limits of what is permitted, then adolescent love will become an important step on the way to a real maturation.

Many adolescents can not cope on their own with problems of transitional age. The desire to close oneself or rebel against the limitations of the elders finds expression in a feeling that appears to be a way of escape from reality.

An attractive guy or girl becomes a subject of daily dreams and fantasies. The object of love is attributed to character traits, which he or she may not have. As a rule, these are the character traits of your favorite characters in books, films and computer games.

Adolescents who have little and unproductive communication with peers are more vulnerable to psychological problems associated with disappointment in love, interdictions for communication. Parents can not always help, for various reasons.

The first extreme is a frivolous attitude towards adolescent love. The second extreme is an excessively serious perception of the object of interest of the son or daughter. The teenager is flooded with advice, evaluates the prospects of marriage or marriage. Respect for the feelings of two young people is a very valuable quality of attentive parents.

What if you do not have enough skills or time for an important conversation with your daughter or son? Ask for help to an adult, experienced mentor who has no prejudices to your child and the object of his love.

One of the effective ways to support a child is a live training of personal growth with practical exercises. Adolescents learn how to effectively express their feelings, say what they care about, share experiences with their peers. The mentor and the group help develop the ability to resolve conflicts in the family, in pairs. Your son or daughter will learn to express their own feelings productively when they are alone with themselves.

Training Growth Phase passes without dry theories and pressure. We help develop self-confidence, make the first love a way of personal development. Your child will find new friends and will not remain without support in difficult times.




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