•What happened can't be changed. Do not torment yourself with thoughts “what if...” Live for today, your child needs support and love.

• When visiting your child, try to control yourself. Your tears will not help the baby, and your appearance will not improve the mood of the medical staff.

•When talking with the doctor, try to clearly formulate your questions and do not take up much of his time. Don't ask the staff to do their best, they are already doing their best.

•Don't forget that mother's milk is the best food for a baby. Even if the baby is not feeding now, milk will probably be needed in the future..

• Do not raise all your connections, do not look for familiar doctors or familiar acquaintances so that they clarify the condition of your child.

In most cases, this is an empty formality for them and it will not bring any additional information.. And the medical staff is often annoying.

•Don't harass doctors with questions about your child's long-term prognosis. All children in need of intensive care have some degree of risk of distant neurological abnormalities.. Doctors are doing everything to avoid this, but now the main thing is to save the baby's life.. Thinking about who the child will be tomorrow, we often forget that he (she) is someone today.

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