The frontman of the group " According to the artist, it was she who helped him get out of a toxic relationship and restore his inner balance. Kharchyshyn noted in an interview with Rozmov that the difficult period lasted about three years, so it probably occurred during his relationship with journalist Yanina Sokolova. The couple announced their breakup in September, but did not mention the reasons or the number of years they had lived together..

Speaking about personal experiences, the singer noted that for him the key is the feeling of the “rear” - the inner home, where there is support and stability.

“Each person is, first of all, his inner world, his personal relationships, his “homes”. When relationships at home improve, and you understand that they are waiting for you there, that there is a home front and it is formed, then all processes improve. I had a little bad time at home. Now I feel this rear, and I feel good. Apparently, the feeling of that rear and the feeling that you can push off from the rear. The house attracts, but I've already experienced the bottom. That is, I pushed off from the bottom - vain hope, codependent or monodependent relationships. When I talk about the rear, it’s about the person who helped me push off from the bottom,” shared Valery Kharchishin.

According to the singer, now there is a person next to him whom he primarily calls a friend, but does not hide the fact that there are feelings between them. He does not mention the name of a loved one.

" But this is a person for whom there are feelings,” the musician explained.

At the same time, the artist emphasized that the concept of “rear” is broader for him - it includes his close circle, his children, his band, and even his horses.. It was this circle of support, he said, that allowed him to restore balance and return to full-fledged creativity..

In September 2025, Kharchyshyn publicly confirmed his affair with Yanina Sokolova for the first time.. He explained that for a long time they deliberately did not advertise their relationship, but silence began to harm professional activities and give rise to manipulation. At the same time, the musician said that the couple ended their relationship by mutual consent..

Rumors about their romance appeared back in 2019 after working together on the video “Somia Day”, where they played lovers.

After both divorced in 2022, talk of intimacy only intensified. Kharchishin himself at different times called Sokolova a friend and avoided specifying the nature of the relationship, emphasizing that he had no right to talk about a woman without her consent.

Also in May 2022, the musician announced his divorce from his wife Julia after 13 years of marriage.. The couple have children together and, according to the artist, have maintained a normal relationship for the sake of the family.