Why young, healthy women are afraid of old age? Who gives them this fear

At 25, my best friend complained about being called " Well-wishers, male and female, pointed out to her the need to hurry up with marriage, because “after 23 years it is difficult to find a husband, and then it is generally impossible! At the age of 30, right after the divorce, another friend of mine fell into a terrible depression under the slogan: “Life is over - I’m already old!

How did their life turn out The twenty-five-year-old "

Where does the desire come from others to remind us of our age Let's try to figure it out.

You can consider that you have overcome the fear of age, if you sincerely think about the question of how old you are, and... you can hardly remember your passport number. It's just that your life has become so interesting and eventful that you stayed to live at the age that you considered most comfortable for yourself.!

Have you noticed how cosmetics are divided? Face and body care up to 25 years, after 25, after 35 and after 45... And then - silence! Although the proverb claims that “at forty-five, the woman’s berry again! ”, if you follow the advertising approach, after 45 years - either it’s not worth living, or you need to turn to the services of plastic surgeons.

Everything that today is called the " Then she would rather want to rejuvenate with the help of the offered goods and services.!

Nobody canceled envy, and, in principle, any woman, especially if she is successful and looks good, should be ready to meet this unpleasant manifestation of human souls.. But here's the problem! We fully understand that older women can envy us, and are absolutely not ready to understand the envy of younger ones..

And it is - envy of our already flourishing beauty, to success in our careers, to the knowledge gained, to the fact that we have perfectly mastered the art of communication, to our success with men... So it reminds, hinting transparently, a twenty-five-year-old young woman in her thirties! And she sees that the younger girlfriend, of course, is fresh (after all, we have already been drummed into our heads that youth is the main, if not the only value! ), and therefore cannot but agree, and then nurtures his depression... Men They usually remind us of the age when our relationship develops, as in the famous fable about the fox and grapes. Well, how else can you prick a woman if she surpasses a man in talents, and in a career, and in the level of self-esteem, finally?

How to calm yourself if she has already refused or is about to leave? Well, of course, shout out loud: “Green, green, green grapes!

Diseases This is the only good reason to think about age. Indeed, up to 20 everything heals like a dog, up to 30 diseases pass quite quickly, but after 30 some sores tend to become attached. And the further, the more sticky they become.! When we realize how we are being manipulated, we have the opportunity to resist this manipulation..

Anna Barinova nedug. en.