Men aged 45-47 often have a beer belly, and for some reason they believe that girls at 20 years old will throw themselves at this middle-aged, short of breath, with coronary insufficiency, with a bald head, as the Internet publication for girls and women from 14 to 35 reports.. net What is menopause? What are the signs of this condition? Can menopause be considered a disease

This question is answered by a psychotherapist-sexologist, professor, president of the Russian Association of Sexologists Dilya Enikeeva.

No, menopause is not a disease, it is a natural state of the body when it moves from one age category to another.. Menopause, in fact, in both men and women is a gradual extinction of the function of the gonads.

Gonads are sex glands. Men have testicles, women have ovaries.. Accordingly, the more it fades, the older the person, the less sex hormones are produced, in women - estrogens, in men - testosterone.. Testosterone makes a man a man, it is not for nothing that sometimes athletes, bodybuilders take it to give masculinity. Estrogens, respectively, make women: all female roundness, beautiful breasts are all estrogens. Plus, the level of sexual desire depends on the level of testosterone - both in men and women.. Both men and women have both estrogens and testosterone, so when the gonads begin to produce sex hormones, problems arise that we generally call involution problems (fading).

Everything fades: both sexual desire and opportunities. The only question is when it comes. With the female menopause, everything is more or less clear. Every woman knows that this is inevitable, there is no escape from this, but now, thanks to information, women know that menopause can be alleviated..

Men, denying the presence of menopause, although it really exists and I will tell about its symptoms, they make it worse for themselves.

If women no longer suffer, being in a state of menopause, and in fact some women menopause lasts up to 10 years, and menopause, unfortunately, has become younger, it comes earlier than in previous years.

This is understandable - stress, ecology, we all do not live in the best conditions, so sometimes a woman is not yet 40 years old, and she already feels certain problems. The ovaries work in a reduced mode, because a woman is under constant stress, especially those women who, in fact, perform a male role: a business woman, politicians, a role with a high emotional and mental load, and then they begin to have such problems.

For some reason, in the philistine world, it is believed that menopause is when menstruation ends.. Not at all. Symptoms, more often mental manifestations occur much earlier, these are depressions, fatigue, headaches, pressure drops, a feeling of tide, a feeling of heat, depressed mood, lack of sexual desire. Less estrogen and a woman begins to gain weight, this scares many women, plunges them into an even more depressive state and a vicious circle is obtained..

But there is a remedy for this. I will not name anything, but there are such means. In this state, you need to go to a gynecologist-endocrinologist, now they are even called climacologists. Women will be helped, they will calmly and without problems endure the state of menopause.

Same for men. When signs of withering appear, their character changes, they become grouchy, grouchy, picky, they begin to blame the wife for everything, they say that the wife does not satisfy in bed because she has lost her sexual attractiveness, moreover, the other would say how good this. This means that a man's sexual desire decreases, testosterone drops, respectively, there is less strength, more fatigue, but the load is still the same..

Sex becomes less frequent, and men often begin to blame their wife for this. The wife does not turn on and they find an excuse that a 42-year-old woman is less attractive than a 22-year-old. One can agree with something, yes, the body is different, but, on the other hand, now women actively take care of themselves and do fitness much more than men.

Men in 45-47 often have a beer belly, and what do they think that girls in their 20s will throw themselves at this middle-aged, breathless, coronary insufficiency, bald man?

If this is a bald, middle-aged, not very healthy, and even with reduced sexual desire, let's say, a state employee who has little or no free money, then girls do not line up for such a man.

Maya Milich, Natalia Kozhina nedug. en.