An amazing opportunity is given to us, women - to endure, to grow in our body a new little man, a new member of society, a new personality.

Due to the fact that this occurs in our life everywhere, we often do not think about what a miracle it is! !! !! Just imagine, from 2 small cells a whole human organism with its own characteristics, with its own character, with its demands and wishes, is formed and formed.

Pregnancy is a huge, incomprehensible miracle! !! !!.

And it would be optimal to hold this time so as not to regret it afterwards, or, conversely, done in vain. To conduct with advantage for themselves and for the little man.

What should Mommy do (not do), so that pregnancy brings happiness to her and the baby?.

Let us begin with the question of how life originates not from the physiological point of view, but from the spiritual.

You never thought about the question of why pregnancy has occurred right now and it is you. Accident? maybe. But how then to explain the cases when some families, despite contraception, are pregnant, and other families with an absolutely normal healthy reproductive system and the desire to have a child, pregnancy for some reason does not come. What's the matter? Let's figure it out..

Child does not come by accident. He "goes on purpose to the parents selected in advance". This is all, of course, figuratively, but if you think about and remember the period before the conception, you can notice interesting things. Almost all women remember that really before the onset of pregnancy life somehow constantly confronted them with the kids (either mentally or in reality). Thus, the baby, Nature, Life or God (to whom that is closer) prepares parents for the upcoming event. Sometimes, if the parents are categorically against the baby at the moment, he may be hiding for a very long time (you probably heard that sometimes a woman continues to have menstruation up to 5 months and more, and only the grown up stomach makes you think "what if ..."). Very sad for those children whose parents, despite all the efforts of the baby, decide to refuse (I mean both abortion and refusal at birth). I really want to believe that the level of culture in society will increase, and soon every child gifted by God (Nature) will be welcome.

Let's take pregnancy as a gift, about which it is necessary to care, which should be cherished! And since the baby has chosen you as its parents, let us respect your choice!.

So, the pregnancy has come!.

"What happiness! "Great reaction! It's great if my mother met this news in such a way. But it also happens in another way. Since this event is very responsible, many young parents feel emotion, not fear, as the first emotion: what's next? But as a work? And whether everything is normal with him, I after all drank tablets (alcohol ...). I want to note immediately that such a reaction is also quite normal and can take place. The main thing is not to get hung up on experiences, but to find in yourself positive emotions and love for this baby (it must already be in you, just look).

In occasion of fears - it is not necessary to worry. All financial issues are resolved on the principle of "God gave the child, he will give to the child". And indeed it is! Even surprisingly, in some low-income families, the financial situation changed with the arrival of a baby. The main thing is to believe it, and, of course, do not give up.

With regard to the reception of all kinds of undesirable substances inward - in the early stages of the mechanism operates "all or nothing," t. If the baby was attached (implanted) and could hold, then everything will be fine, otherwise, menstruation would start on time (or with a little delay).

Life without emotions is impossible, and of course, they will also occur during pregnancy. Emotions are pleasant and not very, and there is no harm in that we not only rejoice, but also experience negative feelings. Be upset and angry normally, but you can not leave these feelings for a long time to cook in the boiler of your soul. Let's think, why is it important not to focus on negative emotions? What's bad about it? What are they threatening us or our baby?.

First, scientists of many countries came to the conclusion that there is a connection between the cord obtuse and the unwillingness of the mother to have a baby right now.

Secondly, it is not a secret for anyone that the baby feels Mom's emotions and experiences them together with her. And the kid, whose life begins in gray-black tones, will not be very easy.

Do not forget, in our power to make the arrival of a new man into this world a bright, happy, happy. In addition, it's not so difficult. Just let yourself love it. To love not later, someday, but now! It's your baby, your baby, your great miracle! !! !!.

PS: If you are skeptical about the fact that the baby in the abdomen is already a full-fledged person, and consider it just a newfangled trend, it may be interesting for you to know that even in Ancient India and Ancient China, kids were taught to be beautiful already during the intrauterine Life: a woman after the third month of pregnancy was surrounded only by beautiful things, beautiful music, fed a delicious, consecrated food in the temple, outfits for the future mother sewed from the most expensive fabrics (preference was given to the blue color, t. It was believed that he most fruitfully affects the future child).

Very often pregnancy is associated with such a phenomenon as toxicosis. I have no doubt that you all heard of him. How do you think, from what it arises? Perhaps this is an invariable attribute of pregnancy? But how then to be with pregnant women who do not have it? Maybe they have a defective pregnancy?.

Let's look at the causes of toxicosis.

When and from what it arises?.

First, toxicosis can occur when the mother has problems with the gastrointestinal tract. What to do about it? Of course, it would be optimal before pregnancy to "repair" your body. But what about if an "unplanned" pregnancy caught you off guard, and problems with the gastrointestinal tract still exist. It is very important in this case to pay attention to food. Ask yourself some simple questions and analyze: what do I eat? But do I need this and the baby? Try to exclude from your diet fat, hot and spicy food, spend more time in the fresh air - and very soon you can forget about toxicosis.

Secondly, toxicosis can be the answer of a baby to some mother's actions. , If the baby does not like what his mother does, he informs her about it with the help of toxicosis.

The question arises: what can we not like our "pussy"? Yes, anything! The most common discontent are: malnutrition, work, quarrels with loved ones, mother's negative thoughts. That is, if we understand that does not want our baby, we can find him some sort of compromise and get rid of the notorious toxicity.

The main thing at the same time to remember that in your tummy there lives a living little man, a beloved, dear little man. And everything that is necessary for pregnancy to flow favorably, both for mother and baby, find a common language with the baby, feel it, try to understand his desires. How to do it? Very simple. To build a close strong bond with the baby, the best way to arrange communication with him, mom and dad can begin to talk with the baby already at the earliest period of pregnancy. He, of course, at this "age" you do not yet hear, but at the energy level he feels. Later, when you easily overcome verbal contact, you can try to communicate with the baby without words (at the level of thoughts and emotions). Listen to his desires! Do not make the kid eat what he does not want at all and do what he and you just feel sick (both in the literal and figurative sense of the word). Give him your love! Do this in many ways and as often as possible!.

And remember - the children with whom moms and dads all over the pregnancy maintain a close relationship, in addition to developing well in utero, it is much easier to be born. And why? Yes, simply because it is always more pleasant and easier to go to where you know exactly what you are waiting for, like where you are happy!.

Success and achievement of the goals of health. Sumy. Ua.